Are we really driving safer?

In an effort to lower our car insurance premium we recently enrolled in one of those safe driver programs where they put a device in your car that talks to your smart phone and tattles on you to corporate. So far we only did it with my oldest son and I, and I have to say, I find it more annoying than informative.

It may be that other companies’ devices are able to gather more information to tell what’s really going on, but I doubt it. Ours basically uses an accelerometer to tell if you start too quickly, turn too tightly, or brake too suddenly. I assume it uses GPS data to tell how fast you are going and what the speed limit is in that area–which raises concerns, as such databases are not always correct. Since it also works with an app on your phone, it also can monitor your cellphone use while you drive.

It does okay. I do need to remind my son to slow down, and to not use his phone while driving. But it’s not as smart as one would hope. It can’t tell if you’re just checking something really quick on your phone while at a light. It can’t tell if you’re braking hard because you aren’t paying attention to the car ahead of you or because someone pulled out in front of you. If you brake hard, it dings you. If you corner quickly it dings you, even though sometimes you are making a left turn and want to get out of the way.

In short, it can’t tell if you’re a bad driver or consciously trying to avoid an accident. If some jerk cuts in front of you and then hits the brakes hard you’re supposed to just run into the back of him while you brake slowly, I guess.

We’re still in our first monitoring period, so it remains to be seen just how much this will impact our discount, but we’ve never been able to manage better than around 94%, and have usually been in the high 80% range. I’m starting to understand that commercial with the people yelling at other drivers, “DON’T MESS WITH MY DISCOUNT!” Because you can be safe driver (I’ve never had an accident, and it’s been nearly thirty years since my last ticket) and yet responding to someone else’s bad driving will still bring your score down.

If we don’t get a good discount this next time I’m yanking the whole thing. I don’t need to stress while I’m driving.

Managing money requires visibility

Many people will tell you the first step in managing your money is to create a budget. While I do believe budgets to be important, for many people the first step is something much more basic: getting in the habit of tracking your money.

This is not as easy as it sounds. In our highly-competitive society, there are more options for anything than we really need or know what to do with. For example, consider all the different options for simply paying for a purchase:

  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit card
  • Debit card
  • Money order
  • Gift card
  • Credit
  • Electronic Funds Transfer
  • PayPal

I’m sure there are more, but you get the idea. Most of us use at least three of those options. I personally use all but two between my personal spending and my business. With so many different ways to buy something, each with a different means and rate of tracking, it can become very easy to at least temporarily forget where your money has gone.

It can be very easy, for example, to charge something on your credit card and then forget you’ve made that purchase until the statement comes up to a month later. It can be nearly impossible to stick to a budget if you spend money in a certain category, forget you spent is, and then spend that money again thinking you still have it available. When the bill comes you will likely find yourself surprised and over budget.

So what is the solution? Well, there are two, actually, that work together: Simplify and Track

Simplify: Do you really need all those different payment methods? Do you really need, for example, to have your savings account at one bank and your checking account at another? Do you need to use three different credit cards? Do you really need to use both checks and a debit card? Look for ways you can reduce the number of “Outgoing Streams” you use. While I did admit to using nearly all of the payment methods listed above, there are only two I use with any regularity.

Look for ways to simplify. Use only one credit card if you can. Put all your accounts together at a single bank. Choose to use either your debit card or your checkbook exclusively. If you find it difficult to choose between some options, always select the one that is easier to track.

Track: Develop a habit of gathering evidence of every purchase you make. Hold on to receipts. Write down all checks you write in your check register. Check your credit cards and/or bank accounts online at least twice a month. Keep a running total of all your accounts and expenditures in a single place and consolidate all your records into that Single Source of Information (SSI) at least twice a month.

I use Quicken as my SSI, but anything will do, so long as it is simple and you’ll use it. I keep the books for my homeowners association in a paper ledger, for example. because it’s simple and portable (for taking it to meetings for the members to audit the books). I consolidate my records three times a month; mid-month, just before month-end, and after month-end when my bank statement comes. Others may need less often than that, and some may need more, but I’d recommend no less than twice a month or you’ll miss making important payments.

Once you Simplify and Track you’re in good shape for devising a budget and getting your finances under control. You can’t control what you can’t see and understand. If you don’t develop the discipline to at least track your money you’ll never be able to develop the discipline to create and stick to a budget. Tracking your money is the foundation to every other step that leads to financial self-reliance and, potentially, independence.

Frugality, financial compatibility, and the silver lining of unemployment

One of the smartest financial decisions I ever made was marrying my wife. I’m a reasonably frugal guy, but she is great at it. I think it comes from living in Estonia under the Soviet Union for awhile. They didn’t have much, so everyone got used to getting by on very little. As a result she’s never been one to spend extravagantly.

When we got married I wasn’t making much money. It seemed like a lot at first because it was the first time I’d ever been on salary instead of wages, so thinking “lump-sum” made it sound so much greater than it really was. At any rate, when we got married things were a bit tight. We’d just barely squeaked our way into a home loan to buy my brother’s house, and it seemed like we were one major appliance failure away from financial ruin. Yet because we were frugal we got by, and even absorbed a few lesser financial problems.

In time, however, my income started rising. And that’s where my wife really helped out. My first instinct was to increase our budget to match our increased income. We could afford to live a little better now, I figured. But she was firm, insisting that we instead put that money into savings. I grudgingly went along with it at first, but after awhile I got a bit excited to see how much we were putting away and how we could endure minor setbacks more easily.

That became the pattern for the ten years we’ve been together. My income continued to rise, and as we were having kids, our expenses rose, too. But because of our frugality our expenses did not keep pace with my income. We were spending more money, but we were saving more, too.

Am I ever grateful for that savings now–and that frugality. I lost my job nine months ago, and though unemployment insurance helps, we still rely on our savings quite a bit. Our savings has been holding up amazingly well. That’s partly because we were saving so much, but it’s also because we know how to be frugal. The minute I knew my job was going away we went into “bare minimum” mode and were able to cut our budget by about a third. That really helps the savings go farther.

Eventually I will find work again, and then we’ll see the silver lining. Unemployment has helped us identify and eliminate some of the fat from our budget. When my income goes back up again it will be much easier to simply say “no” to letting our budget increase again rather than having to look for ways to cut back once we’ve gotten used to spending more. We can move forward with a much more efficient budget and with any luck rebuild our savings that much faster.

Of course first I have to find work, so our savings may continue to take a hit for awhile, but it’s comforting to know that I’ve got such a strong partner in my wife. It’s a big relief knowing that she’s working just as hard or harder to keep our expenses down right now. We’re under enough strain right now without having to clash over money as well.

Being married to someone I’m financially compatible with is a true blessing.